Christian dating and waiting
” It turns out we were not in sync on these issues, and I decided to end the relationship. But I began to notice subtle patterns that bothered me.His job often seemed more important to him than our relationship, and he would repeatedly put friends or family before me.I’d been struggling with making a decision about this particular relationship for at least a year.I truly wanted to do what I felt was God’s will, but I also really didn’t want to give up the relationship.
When friends began to point out other red flags about our relationship, I took some time to seriously seek God’s will on the matter.But so often when I go to him with my questions and restlessness, he doesn't reveal anything instantly. It's in the desert, the wilderness, the quietness that God can restore hope and vision and deepen my character.Yes, he brings hope, he renews my faith, and he gives me strength to keep going. " I often find myself grumbling, tired of waiting, tired of trying to hang onto hope as the months and years slip away and so many questions remain unanswered.I long for a breakthrough in a tedious career that does little to spark life in my heart.